Top Questions School Counselors Receive from Full Time Students and Families
Top Questions School Counselors Receive from Full Time Students and Families
October 14, 2025
By: Kathryn Hodgins, Content and Public Relations Specialist, Florida Virtual School

Florida Virtual School Full Time school counselors play a vital role in supporting students and families throughout their academic journey in FLVS Full Time Public Schools. From elementary to high school, the questions they receive reflect the evolving challenges students face. Whether it's staying organized, managing stress, or planning for college, school counselors are a trusted resource. Below are some of the most frequently asked questions school counselors receive.
Elementary School (Grades K-5)
1. How can my child stay organized in a virtual learning environment?
Parents often ask how to help their children succeed in online learning. School counselors recommend:
Creating a structured daily routine
Using visual schedules and checklists
Setting up a distraction-free workspace
For more recommendations, check out our Tips for Online Elementary School Success blog post.
2. How can we manage test anxiety?
School counselors suggest relaxation and visualization techniques, along with focusing on past test successes to build confidence.
Middle School (Grades 6-8)
3. How do I stay organized and keep up with assignments?
Middle school students often struggle with time management, so learning how to stay on top of schoolwork is a skill that will help them now and in the future. Counselors often advise:
Using one place to track everything (planner, agenda, or app)
Writing down assignments when they’re given (not just the due date)
Completing your most challenging assignment first
Crossing off tasks as they are done. This can help students feel in control.
Creating a daily routine and setting reminders
Checking your pace plan daily to see what’s currently due and what assignments are coming up
Asking for help when needed
4. How do I maintain pace in my courses?
Students are encouraged to check their pace plans daily, set reminders for upcoming assignments, and break tasks into manageable steps.
High School (Grades 9-12)
5. How do I improve my grades?
Improving grades starts with identifying challenges, whether it's understanding the material, staying organized, or managing time. Counselors help students:
Set realistic goals and track their progress
Use tools like quiz retakes to deepen understanding and reinforce learning
Access tutoring and study strategies
Communicate effectively with teachers
6. Can I switch classes or electives?
Class changes may be possible depending on availability. Counselors work with families to ensure changes support academic and personal growth.
7. What should I do if I’m struggling in a subject?
Students are encouraged to talk to their teachers first. Counselors also connect them with FLVS help sessions, study groups, and learning strategies tailored to their needs.
8. How do I deal with bullying or peer pressure?
Counselors provide a safe space to talk and offer strategies for self-advocacy and building confidence. They also collaborate with school staff to maintain a supportive environment.
9. I’m feeling anxious or stressed. What can I do?
Coping strategies like journaling, mindfulness, and breathing exercises are recommended. School counselors may also refer families to outside mental health resources.
10. How do I prepare for college?
Start early, ideally in junior year, by visiting campuses, taking entrance exams, and getting involved in extracurriculars. Staying organized and exploring interests are key.
11. How do I choose the right college?
Focus on fit over prestige. Consider size, location, campus culture, and support systems. Visiting campuses and talking to current students can help. Ask yourself the question, “Does it feel like home?”
12. When should I take the SAT or ACT?
Midway through junior year is ideal. Students are encouraged to try both exams and retake them if possible to improve scores.
13. Can I graduate early?
Early graduation depends on course progress and goals. School counselors assess readiness and often recommend using high school to explore career pathways or dual enrollment options. High school is a great time to prepare for adult life, grow, and explore interests.
14. Is a world language required to graduate?
While not required for graduation at Florida Virtual High School, two years of the same world language are often needed for college admissions and scholarships like Bright Futures.
15. Will I get into a competitive university like the University of Florida?
Admissions are holistic and competitive. School counselors advise students to focus on strong academics, test scores, and extracurricular involvement, and to consider a range of colleges.
16. What are my options if I don’t follow a traditional college path?
Counselors help students explore multiple pathways, including career and technical education (CTE), certifications, and alternative routes to their goals.
Final thoughts
School counselors are essential partners in student success. Whether navigating academic challenges, emotional well-being, or future planning, their guidance helps students thrive. If you or your child has questions, don’t hesitate to reach out to your school counselor; they’re here to help.